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A HUNGRY FREE MAN IS BETTER THAN A WELL FED SLAVE.

WHAT DOES FREEDOM MEAN TO YOU. Maybe freedom means leaving it all behind on Friday afternoon and having the time of your life every weekend. Maybe it means being able to set your own hours but doing whatever work they ask so long as you get the paycheck. Maybe it means working from any locale on earth and making it to the beach every summer for one month. Maybe it means having no boss and being the master of your own destiny, even if you are working yourself to the bone. Your freedom may be someone else’s cage. Don’t judge others. What matters is that you look deep inside and find out what gives you the ultimate freedom in your life. To me, freedom means living in a free country, something that most may take for granted every day not because they are ungrateful or out of touch with reality, not at all, simply because they cannot imagine NOT living in a free country since that is all they have ever known. After all, how can you know what you have never known or experienced? I m

A VISIONARY

BOLD, VOCAL, INTRIPID, DARING, BRAVE,  SPIRITED, AUDACIOUS,  DAUNTLESS , FEARLESS... Words failed me to describe him. Sometimes, God comes down in human form and dwell among us. I remember the first day I heard about this Man. I had zero interest in whatever course he was fighting for. I thought he was foolish and was just trying to gain popularity. Alas! My imprecision was of the highest order. My speculations failed me. It was so erroneous of me to be conclusive about him without digging deep enough to ferret what drove this Man's eagerness. "How about now, Esther?" You may ask. When I look at Nnamdi Kanu, all I see is PASSION. I so much love him because of his Passion. When I watch his videos, I can feel the emotional energy in crescendo of his voice. This is a man that have discovered why he came to this planet. His compulsiveness is simply out of this world. When i look at his eyes, all i see is Passion. His spirit, soul and body is fixated solely on the cou

A TWISTED VIEW OF MARRIAGE!!!

People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they'll say "Ahh Oga Victor, go and marry so you'll stop washing". They'll see a man cooking and be like "Bro John, you need to get married so you can stop cooking". A mother will look at his 35years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him "James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you". SERIOUSLY?? In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don't marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid? Many women look 3times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she's about to pass out. REALLY?? 😱 Men,

JEALOUSY ...AN ACID

However, I paused my reading and began to reflect on the narrative. A story that got my body covered with prickles and made me wonder how much of villains we have in human form. The character of Ahab in 1 Kings 21:1-4 , gave me sudden migraine in such an alarming way. Ahab, who was the king of Israel had royalty, properties, splendor, grandiloquent mansions and any good thing a King in his capacity could ever imagine including any single woman whose attractive coquettish looks pleases his eyes. Yet Ahab never got to learn the skill of quenching Man's insatiable desire for more. His dissatisfaction played out itself as his eyes nearly went out of its sockets when he sighted the vineyard of a common man by name Naboth. The king got jealous, zealous, eager and almost went gaga just to ensure he got the vineyard of this common man. He negotiated money in exchange for Naboth's vineyard but the lay man refused. He offered another vineyard in exchange but Naboth neither flinch

SOUL TIES ( Sexual bonds).

SEX is a Spiritual bond (Soul tie) How many men's/women's souls do you have inside of you? Every person you sleep with leaves a part of themselves with you. Some of us think sex is for fun but you don't know that sex out of marriage is the greatest covenant that you can ever think of, Sexually transmitted demons are not something to play with and are harder to get rid of than diseases!!!! Soul ties are more powerful than you think. The right mate for you will PRAY on your soul not PREY on it. Women, God made u to be protected by your husband's and sex makes you feel married, even though you aren't. Sex is a spiritual bond because of the connection made during love making. Do you ever wonder what your soul looks like to GOD? Sex does more to the body than the eyes can see. Be careful who and what you allow your soul to tie to!!! This picture touched me.  Think about it.

SHUN SEXUAL VICTIMIZATION

Relatively little is known about the sexual victimisation of male children, because more girls report sexual abuse than boys, it has been widely assumed that boys are less vulnerable or that their abuse is less damaging than the abuse of girls. As a result, child protection programmes have been directed towards the protection of females. Interviews with  adult male survivors of sexual abuse suggest that the victimisation of boys is under‐recognised, under‐reported and that boys are not adequately protected by parents and current child protection curriculum. Subjects identified their sexual curiosity and ignorance as the primary contributors to their victimisation. Non‐incest victims also believed that the lack of physical affection from their fathers contributed to their vulnerability. Strategies to facilitate the recognition and reporting of sexual abuse by boys warrant immediate attention. Save the male child, protect the male child, don't ignore the male child. With Love- Es

THE EMOTIONAL SCARS OF A MAN...(The society never listens to the tears of men).

There is this woman that lives in our area. She would come to our house and tell my mother to allow me to go and play with her children. I was barely 8 and I was in primary 3 or so. She  would buy biscuits and sweet for me. Once we got to her house, she would lure me to her room, spread her legs and ask me to start sucking her vagina. It went on for days and she told me that anytime I tried telling anyone, that my navel will dry up. My mother would never imagine that I was doing the work of her husband for her. I caught infections on my lips. My mother took me to a chemist shop. The man, after examining me, told my mother to take me to the hospital. My father was away, for months. The doctor, I was made to understand, told my mother that such infections could only be gotten through oral sex and with tears in my mother's eyes, I had to tell her everything. My mother confronted the woman. We both worshipped in the same church. She denied and said that I was lying against her.

DEALING WITH FRUSTRATED PEOPLE.

There was a viral photo sometime ago on the social media depicting a man who died at onigbongbo bus stop Maryland. Story behind the pix of the dead man goes thus... "A danfo brush his car, and this man left his car, remove his shoes and ran after the danfo, he try to hold the bus but the conductor push him away and another danfo coming hit him on his head and that was the end." This I can relate to the 2 scenarios below: Scenario 1: Two men were involved in a road rage in the ever busy Nyanya road in Abuja. One brushed the other's car without intention and without knowing. The fellow whose car was brushed pursued the other fellow, blocked him, came out of his car with his wheel spanner and commenced to break the head lamp of the other fellow. The other man refused to come out of his car, allowed the man in utter rage to satisfy himself and drove off. It cost N100,000.00 for him to fix his head lamp...but he is still alive. Scenario 2: A staff of the Nati