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'Why Our Top Pastors are Failing in Marriage' .

Relationship expert Praise Fowowe explains Relationship expert, Praise Fowowe, who is a self confessed sex addict turned relationship and sex counselor, in this incisive piece gave reasons why the marriages of some top pastors are packing up. Find his thought provoking piece below 1. A man of God is not God, he is a man: Unfortunately, we treat our men of God as if they are spirits who don't live in human body. What do we expect when we saddle them with our numerous issues. Unfortunately, many are not wise to say no to church members whose lives will continue if they drop dead. Church members have academic, financial, and even marital problems, they go to the pastor as if the man is built to solve every problem and in our quest to prove that we are superstars, we also fail to embrace the use of professionals who are trained in these things because of our hidden fear of respect. What stops a man of God who knows his marriage is in danger to take a back seat and allow a church memb

DISCIPLINE IS THE GREATEST.

Anoiting is not a big deal, talent is nothing to boost about, gifts doesn't warrant success, the fact that you sing and bring down heaven on earth or you are so prolific in writing, skilful in homiletics, proficient in rhetorics and speak with oracular certitude does not mean you'll go far in life. In all these, you're not the best. There are many more gifted, talented, skilful in those same giftings. To some, God gave a talent, to some, he gave two, three, five etc. Many are so multidimensional with no elastic limit. In all these, there is one thing you shouldn't do without... DISCIPLINE. God cannot make you discipline, you inculcate it yourself. Your ocean of anointing doesn't make you discipline, your speaking in tongues doesn't make you discipline, your being a Minister doesn't make you discipline. Discipline is something you strive for all by yourself. Anointing without discipline brings shame and crisis. Discipline should be our watchword. Es