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Ladies, we make a lot of mistakes. Emotions often times becloud our sense of logical reasoning. Not all that glitters is gold. There are times when you think you’ve found the real deal, when in fact, you’re faced with a fake. A fake friend, the hype can sometimes make you want to believe that it’s the real thing. Sadly, some men have ways of faking their devotion to you, but only for the sole purpose of getting into your pants. A lot of women can fall for the sweet words, the little gifts and the promises of forever, only to see him scurrying away the moment she sleeps with him. How to know signs he is faking love to have $ex with you. I am not here to make you lose faith in men. But we can’t just sit back and watch as women are manipulated, tricked and lied to by men who just want to get some action. Below are some ways to spot a guy that only wants to hit it and quit it. #1 He never takes you out on a date .One thing a guy that is serious about you does is take you out on dates....

Imagine a two year old toddler being carried around because he can't walk yet. For two, three....ten years, he remained a toddler he once was without any growth or developmental changes being evident. His number of years kept increasing without a geometric progression in size, cognitive reasoning or biological development.No one wishes for such. That's how important change is in our lives not just morphologically but in every facet of life one can ever think of. Whether we are working inside a small team in a non-profit organization or in a large multinational conglomerate, dealing with change is the ongoing challenge. Change forces us to adapt. In life, our adaptability defines how successful or resilient we are in dealing with change. Resilience is our ability to bounce back and recover from adverse conditions and our innate ability to respond resourcefully in our environment. As the pressure to deal with change increases upon everyone, we need to be increasingly virtu...

Tunde has a well paid job which he held firmly for over 6 years. Renting a three bedroom flat apartment in Osakpa lekki can be terribly expensive but he went for it to suit his taste for luxury. Most times, he eats in restaurants especially those days none of his bevy of ladies paid him a visit. He's a flamboyant sanguine too generous and highly exuberance for his age as he's always hosting parties and basking in its euphoria. Looking at Tunde and his extravagance from afar, you definitely will count him among those men most favoured to have everything working out for them but is this assertion true- I'll distinctly answer in negative as my reasons will surface soon. His most recent girlfriend questioned why he doesn't have a car yet. Having a great job which pays all the bills of his frequent weekend parties, paying enormous amount for his rented apartment with each of the rooms well furnished beyond what an average bachelor can afford, yet no car, sends a wrong...

Its really amazing how 'we' ladies fear the possibility of remaining unmarried for a long time stretching into our late twenties and thirties. I have seen countless number of spinsters visit many prayer houses to seek spiritual guide and advice just to be a Mrs and while so many will quickly come out to say they are unperturbed while deep inside of them they hope that they just find the “right man” fast enough and start raising a family before reaching their menopause age. Watching your friends marry and start raising her kids can cause anxiety at times in an unmarried woman....Yes, that's the truth. You feel as though you are wasting your time and running out of patience. We need to understand life isn't a competition as no one was born exactly the same second as we were born. Not every woman is destined for early marriage. Even when suitors starts coming for your hand in marriage in your teen years, it's still not a guarantee for early marriage as no one know...

"Ola is one of those ladies described as being born with silver spoon. Her father, a great magnate and political juggernaut has a questionable destructive devotion to political affairs. His strings of wealth is so massive like erythrocytes constantly produced in the bone marrow. He's so successful that his fame spread abroad. Unfortunately, his daughter, Ola happened not to acquire that tactful, able-to-conquer aspect of him. She's too docile, overly malleable. Her father often scold her, expressing his dissatisfaction over her tractable behaviour. 'We live in a harsh world full of villains. Softness puts you at the mercy of people around you, Build your mind and control your emotion. The rain of advices showered by his father failed on deaf ears. Having gotten a high second class upper division degree, she has achieved the greatest thing she can ever work hard for. She doesn't need further studies nor professional qualifications. After four year...

Don't be taken aback by the caption I chose to give this.No better word exist to dilute the title with something more soothing or less offensive. I remember the words of Alexandre Dumas "A man who doubts himself is like a man who enlists in the ranks of the enemy and bears arms against himself. He makes his failure certain by being the first to be convinced of it." "Emeka was a young man that any woman will indulge in acetic fasting just to hear him propose. He was blessed with unique features so rare to find in men of 21st century...he was too homely, graced with high culinary skills and kind hearted . He graduated from the university, packed his luggage and travelled back to his village to take care of his aged parents...(His excuse). He is the third son in a family of four men and one pretty lady. His siblings left their rickety house in search of greener pastures in the city yet Emeka did not flinch. He's so comfortable with village life ...

The fact you're still young doesn't mean you have all the years and time in the world to mess around.Your youthful period is a period of productivity, resourcefulness, versatility and working with dexterity. If you don't do what you ought to do in your twenties, don't be surprise when you find yourself where you ought not to be in your sixties. We always think we still have a long way to go forgetting each day we sleep and wake brings us closer to our graves. The world needs you and I to make it better.The world cries out for young people who will distinguish themselves with every form of distinctiveness. Walking along with the crowd seems to be the trend of events hitherto, I wish they know walking with the crowd means you'll equally get lost in the crowd. The world doesn't need a chorus answer but a solution-oriented voice. An answer is not necessarily the solution. Every answer is not a solution but every solution is an answer. My question f...