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THE KIND OF MAN A LADY SHOULD NOT MARRY.




There are men and there are over grown babies that claim they are men. Men, which one are you? Are you the type that will come into a ladies life and shatter her dreams instead of helping her achieve her dreams? Are you the type that that will not inspire your woman instead you make her expire? Are you the type that sees nothing wrong in beating your wife all in the name of correction?or you embarrass her in front of friends and relations just to prove you are the man of the house? Are you the type that isn't proud of your wife, you don't take her out, you kill her self confidence, you disrespect her by collecting numbers from every girl you see on the street and you allow them call you at odd hours. Are you that will take care of your own Children when wifey isn't around and you see it as a favour you did for her? Your own Children...Are you the type that sees house chores as a woman's responsibility, no matter how tired she is, you can never help her out?

Are you the type that never appreciates the wife but you open your big mouth and be appreciating your friends wives upandan. Are you the type that when you buy anything for your wife, you see it as you have done her a big favour. Are you the type that lock your phones with a password unknown to your wife, just because you have something fishy in your phone? You take your phone to the toilet, when you are sleeping, your phone is under your pillow so your wife won't see all your dirty chats with girls? Are you the type that listens to friends you how they treat their wives at home, how they shout on their wives, how they see washing cloths as a sin on the man's part, then you come and carry out the experiment in your family?

Are you the type that never call your wife during the day when you are at work? The only time you call her is when you want her to do something for you? But you call other girls and spend more call time on them but when wifey complains, you tell her you have been busy. Are you the type that do not like to hang out with wifey, because your friends didn't come with their wives, they brought uni babes for all of you to enjoy, while your wives stay at home depressed. Pls change! Your wife should never shed a tear if it's not tears of joy. Please if you know you belong to any of this category, i urge you to retrace your steps. Your wife is your mirror. Any disrespect on your wife is a disrespect on your own self. Any person who laughs at your wife, laughs at you also.
Women reciprocate love given by their husbands. Show her love today and your life will forever be sweet and peaceful.

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