I WANT A MAN WITH LOADS OF MONEY TO THROW AROUND. IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK FOR?

Don't give me that weird look and don't ever think Esther is insane just because of this caption. Its mostly the heart cry of many ladies and equally the expectations of most men that has a sister of marriageable age. You must have heard this from one of your female friends....“I desire a God-fearing man with the wisdom of TD Jakes, the body of Will Smith and the swag of Lucious Lyon (Terrence Howard). I want a man with loads of money to throw around. He doesn’t have to be as rich as Steve Jobs, or live in a gigantic house or Pent-house suite,but he should at least
own a grandiloquent mansion. He doesn’t have to own a private jet, but he should be able to purchase a first-class ticket whenever I need to travel.” Is that too much to ask for?

“Hold on! Enough of...‘I need! I need! I need!’” What are you bringing on board? Yes! You
can try for a million years, but a porous basket will never work as a vessel to hold water. Here’s another way to look at it: what use would it be to pour water into a basket? I mean, it’s okay to want all of these
things in a partner (the “water”) but if you are not able to contain it (like the “basket”), you will only become a liability to the source.

Every rich man out there is probably seeking and searching for the heart of a queen. The word “queen” here isn’t necessarily referring to someone of nobility by title. Rather, it means that there must be
something unique and special about you that stands you out. There is
more to being a woman. A virtuous woman brings out the king in her husband. When a King and a Queen come together, such combinations don’t
simply make babies: they create a kingdom. They don’t just raise children, either – instead, they raise a nation! A wise King understands
the symbolic meaning of a crown. The woman herself is the crown. She is a wife of noble character and her husband’s crown. In other words, a crown cannot exist without a King and likewise, a King needs the
CROWN in order to lead as a King.

A virtuous woman is not actually looking for an extraordinary man! Instead, she turns an ordinary man
into an extraordinary man!
One question you must ask yourself is this:

“Am I going to be an asset or a liability to my spouse? Will I be a woman with a purpose?”

The term “purpose” here refers to that which God intends for every woman to be “The Virtuous Woman.” The virtuous woman is not a
myth, nor does it happen overnight. Instead, it is attainable and stems
from a woman who walks in her purpose. I am writing specifically about ‘The Virtuous Woman’, “A role model to be emulated by this generation and set aside to be a helper to her spouse. Nevertheless, I believe it is the duty of the man to provide for his household. A man must have a financial strength likewise a woman. We have a lot of ladies who dance and show off their boobs and big bums on musical videos because they see it as the fastest way of earning a living. They don't want to setup a business of their own nor acquire more education to make them prospective financially stable women that almost every man will desire to have as a wife. In one of my articles"I WONDER WHAT THIS WORLD WOULD BE WITHOUT MEN", I got a lot of incentives as well as criticisms, the later mainly from the female folks just because I was blunt enough to hit the nail at the head.

"Why being so dependent on a Man when God endowed women with amazing intellectual capacity and strength to bear and forbear all stress".
-Esther Ogbuka.

A virtuous woman is a woman of excellence. It’s funny because a lot of people want what she has, yet very few people can actually do what she does daily. Such a woman is often behind an extraordinary man! She is an investor
and not just a wife but she is loaded to the core! Basically, she is financially stable and she is called blessed by her children. Now, that is a blessing. You don’t demand it, but you earn it! She brings value to the table. This woman is a hustler, in every sense of the word – a true businesswoman! Her hands are blessed, and always looking for ways to be a blessing to her household.
She’s not just somewhere thinking and looking at herself in the mirror with her beautiful body and hair saying to herself, “I am HOT – in fact, too hot. And if any man wants me, he must be this and must be that….”
If, as a woman, you are seeking the heart of a king, then remember to be a Queen. Believe that God has made you a success to the man that marries you.
Trust that whatever you touch will turn to gold. You are the favour to the man that marries you!

A virtuous woman is not just a role model with millions of followers on Twitter, blogger, Facebook or Instagram –Not at all. Having followers or daily blog readers doesn't depict virtuousness. It goes beyond talking to people to living the life. One should be pragmatic in raising a nation and building a respected legacy in the process.
Get busy in your purpose, remain driven, and build yourself as a woman. If you need to get a degree, it’s never too late. Whether you
are a single mother or even a teenage mother, the call to be virtuous is the same. If you need to start a business, then start it now! No matter
how small your capital is or whether you must first invest in your own talent, do not delay – just get started.Empower yourself, becoming an asset to your spouse – not a liability.
Live your purpose and pursue becoming the woman you are called to
be!

You are a VIRTUOUS WOMAN! and you have all it takes to build a stable life. God bringing an already made man across your path should be a BONUS not a NECESSITY.